Category: Let's talk
Hi a all.
A serious topic that is dear to my heart. How many guys are not mocho? Are they non-mocho type guys that are good men older then I only? I have found that guys my age I can't hold aconversation with where as lder guys I can talk too about anything. They have emotion, and aren't afraid to talk to other guys abot them. No, not gay here. I promiss. ALso older people are more open abot religion, though there are very few peopl i've talk too about this stuff. I want a mail g friuend. Okay maybe this is just weird, but I dont have any guy friends really. There is my dad whom I love dearly. When I thoght that I coudlnt' wrap presents with him like we always did at Christams becaseu I got home so late fot eh olidays, I almost cried. I have almost lost dad, and that is special to me. I'm away from home right now and I miss it. I know HK is a good place and Ineed to learn stuff but man. I still can't say this is exactly home. Girls, is that why us older guys attract you so much? Or at least the miture ones? I'm curious and again put out the c all. Peace out and God bless. John
what do you mean by matcho? I think I know waht you mean, but I'd like some clarification.
Meaning guys who nomrlly dont' talk. There interest level is cars, and sports only... They use women as sex objects. Drink beer all the time and get waisted. Stuff like that. I enjoy a good drink sure. I like women yes, but I want one, and only one will do for me. Does this help you man?
i get your drift. yah, macho, testoterone filled men bore the pants off me. All cars and beer. I no like this kind of person. *smile* if you want to find out about me, read my profile. macho? you decide.
Hey man
Sure there are "matcho" guys out there but I thnk what you said about all guys doing this is so far from being true, sorry if the group of guys you've met seems to be so much like that. I got lots of guy friends and sure we go out for drinks and sure we make jokes about women and pretend to be all cool occasionally but we've never even discussed women as sex objects though. I think a group of guys is usually just more matcho looking, somehow when guys get together that's the essential maleness showing through, it's stupid but individually the guys are not like that or definitely are not like this all the time. :) Having guy friends is different from having female friends for sure, different hobbies etc, but I like both.
Cheers
-B
I think these guys are desperately insecure and really afraid of women there for they degrade them and if a real woman was to confront these eejits they would run a mile in record time..they are also usually insecure childish and strangely they see nothing wrong in demonstrating this .
I know not all guys are like that, but the ones I've met, that are in my age bracket seem to be the type that do this.
John
They are just trying to fit in to a particular group and find their feet try to see things from their side and maybe they will realise where they are going wrong.
Yeah. I hear ya.. I've also noted that women tend not to like the macho type neither. John
they see beneath the facade to them these guys are like every young animal trying stake his claim in the adult world and thatsbascially what it is a young male trying to claim his own territory and scare off rival males by acting tough...But some women love the macho type they are unable to pick up on the latent insecurity and that blind spot can easily lead to abuse.
Could lead to ubuse, if the guy mocho they are dateing is all about himself and sexual pleasures, I'm sure... John
Woah!
Things actually come out right when Allie types them.
My crap comes out all jumbled. Why's that?
What do you mean by cokie, buy the way?
John
sure of themselves confident and outgoing I like that also..smile
lol i think guys that are rude and mean are those obstacles from which you should get stronger. They may hurt you but you could come back stronger and well it sure helps . since i had to pass through that . Other than that there are women that sometimes are the same, they talk about men on a nasty way or others who just care about the phisical parts . but who knows, my only point of view is that there are a lot kinds of people in this world